How to
Pickup Guys
Part 1: How
to attract attention
Who’s that
hot guy? I wonder if he knows I exist? Does he notice me? If you want to pickup
someone, these questions should not come into your mind. Attention is key. The
first step, is to be visible, appear funny and approachable. Compiled from
advice of various sources, this is how to do it best:
Peacocking – for those out there to pick up anyone
If you have
read book ‘The Game’, this will not be a new concept. It involves you being
brave, and wearing something outrageous – be it a neon yellow t-shirt / a
Russian fur hat / sunglasses bigger than your face – it does not matter. Take a
cactus, a jar of pins or a teapot with you! When you enter a bar, a library, a
cafe – you have to be visible. Attract Attention! It does not necessarily need
to look good, but if it does, even better!
In this way
it makes you more approachable, becomes an ice-breaker and attributes a sense
of humour to you already – something we all love!
Subtle Peacocking – for those out there to pick up that one
person
This
concept I have developed myself especially for ladies. The guy will not even
know what hit him.
Find an
item that will not attract a crowd, but only gain attention from the person you
talk to (are interested in). It could be a t-shirt with a print ‘I (heart) BJ’
or even better it could be a special necklace (let’s say made of pasta twists),
carrot earrings or anything quirky. Make sure it compliments you, and is
located on one of the following areas: on your chest, neckline or other places
of your body considered attractive by men.
This form
of peacocking will not only attract attention to your item, making it a
conversation starter etc, but also to your beauty parts, say – the boobs. What
is more, it will only attract those you speak to, so you can avoid all random
weirdos that could come up to you, as it often happens with traditional
peacocking.
Funny Dances
We all know
how to dance to ‘Gangnam Style’ but when it comes to awkward non-dancable pieces, we move awkwardly and our attention drifts into
the room, looking around. Why not use this in our advantage? Instead of
grooving with everyone, start your own thing – moves like ‘ironing’,
‘submarine’ or ‘egyptians’. Sync it with your friends or try to get people
involved, and you will instantly become centre of attention!
From the
side it looks like you are having a great time, and that’s what guys love. You
appear funny and approachable and, can be used by you to move in on your target.
Finally, if they haven’t noticed you yet, this is your chance.
Some of my
own favourite moves can be found here:
Remember –
be brave and funny, it will pay off! However, attracting attention is only part
of the deal. Read more next week, of how to use and abuse the power of
attraction in transforming that attention into your desirable result. I will
tell you about ‘3 steps’, the popular ‘neg’, as well as ‘nicknames’ and more!
Keep reading, and share if you like!